Steve McNair Shot to Death

[MyGodWearsAHoodie]

WTF?!

Ditto.  WTF are you talking about StL?

[StL FinFan]

I am talking about him leading on an impressionable young girl and making promises to her he knew he would not keep.  Besides cheating on his wife.  I said before I don't think he deserved to die, however, he chose to cheat and he chose to lie.  Actions have consequences and he paid the highest possible price.  Everyone wants to believe she was just some crazy bitch, but we don't know any of the people involved so it was probably way more complicated than that.

[MyGodWearsAHoodie]

I am talking about him leading on an impressionable young girl and making promises to her he knew he would not keep. 

We don't know if he did either of this things. She could have thrown herself at him.  And he may not have promised her a thing.  She may have thought she would lure him away from his wife, but he may have never even suggested that was a possiblity.   He is a famous QB and she is a nut job.  She might have decided to seduce him while watching him on TV and then stalked him.  It happens.

Besides cheating on his wife. 

That he is responsible for.

[fyo]

I am talking about him leading on an impressionable young girl and making promises to her he knew he would not keep.  Besides cheating on his wife.

Clearly, you have a lot of inside knowledge.

Even in a hypothetical situation where such were the case, for you to say that the guy who gets MURDERED is "just as much to blame for this as his girlfriend" is... NUTS. Completely and utterly, far out, bonkers.

[fyo]

That [cheating] he is responsible for.

Even this is really not something we know jack shit about. Ignoring the religious aspect of "marriage till death", we have no idea what Steve McNair's relationship with his wife was. Were they separated? The vacation alone with the kids in Mexico and their house being up for sale certainly make that plausible. The wife could even have kicked him out, for all we know. Sure, he could also have experienced something of a mid-life crisis as his football career ended and hooked up with a young girl.

[StL FinFan]

See, you are labeling me nuts because you don't agree with me.  Exactly my point.

[fyo]

See, you are labeling me nuts because you don't agree with me.  Exactly my point.

Uhmm.... I'm not even sure where to start here...

Saying that a person getting MURDERED, even if that person led another person on, is "just as much to blame" as the murdering "significant other" is ludicrous. I make no bones about that.

What your point is, well, that totally escapes me.

[StL FinFan]

Well then we will just have to agree to disagree because I am tired of trying to explain it to you.

[fyo]

I'm hesitant to even venture close to this particular hornets nest, but how is what you're saying different than saying that a girl getting raped by a guy she led on is just as much to blame as he is?

[MyGodWearsAHoodie]

Well then we will just have to agree to disagree because I am tired of trying to explain it to you.

I am gonna choose "you are a nut" option.  

McNair is not just as responsible as the murderer.  

[StL FinFan]

Just because I am a woman and you don't understand my point of view does not make me a nut.

[MyGodWearsAHoodie]

Just because I am a woman and you don't understand my point of view does not make me a nut.

Your being a women doesn't make you a nut.

Your claiming that a murder victim bears as much responiblity for his death as the murderer that makes you a nut. 

Does a women who wears a sexy dress bear just as much fault if she gets raped as the rapist?

If you leave your car unlocked at night do you bear just as much fault if something is stolen out of the car as the theif?

[StL FinFan]

For the final time, I did not say he deserved to die, but he did make his bed.  Your examples are apples and oranges.  They had a relationship.  It was not a random murder.

[bsmooth]

Unless or until there is evidence that she is involved, I will choose to believe that she was not.

It's being reported now that it was indeed a murder/suicide.  Men, watch who you fool around with and who you lie to.  McNair is as much to blame for this as his girlfriend.  I am not saying he deserved to die, but he knew what he was doing.  Women, take care of yourselves and your own business so you don't have to rely on a man to keep you. 

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20090708/ap_on_sp_fo_ne/fbn_mcnair_killed_82

By this logic the doctor who was murdered deserved it for performing legal abortions.

[Defense54]

McNair is responsible to a point.  Did you see that girls My Face pages? Half of the photos revolved around her posing on the New Escalade McNaire bought her. She was posing on it like that redhead in the Whitesnake Video.  Can you imagine what it was like for a 20 yr old kid  to suddenly be dating The Number one Sports star in the area? To be showered with expensive gifts and Trips ? Then say...........Uggggh. Thanks for the depository baby. (Play Freebird) .   Thats why adults shouldn't mess with Kids. She's not even allowed to legally drink yet, do you think she is gonna make rational decisions? Don't bang needy chicks .

The one thing that got me is that they reported Mcnair didn't have a car in the lot or the area. That means he came for the Escalade. He got it all right.